Men & The Life of Desire
This presentation from March 11, 1990 featuring Robert Bly, James Hillman and Michael Meade addresses many of the unique challenges faced by men in the modern world.
I’ve listened to it many times over the years, and each time it offers new insights into what it means to be a healthy, mature man. I highly recommend this listen for both men and women who live with men — whether they’re their spouses, lovers or daughters.
In this recording, Bly, Hillman and Meade draw on mythology, storytelling, poetry and archetypal psychology to unravel and examine the complex issues around:
what is desire and what role does it play in a man’s life?
male power and purpose
men resolving resentment toward their fathers
forgiving and appreciating the father
differentiating between the real father and the ideal father image
the different roles mentors and fathers play in a man’s life
men making their lovers into their mothers
the necessity of rekindling imagination and vision for one’s life
moving from boy consciousness to adult male consciousness
tending to the wounded child within
embodying the archetypal potentials of the King, Warrior, Magician, Lover, Trickster and Wild Man